39 Random Ways to Love Your Husband

Me and My Superman!

This is a fun one! I have listed some wonderful ways to let your man know you love him. Some are practical and fun, and others are more serious but necessary for a successful marriage. Why 39? It’s because that is just how many I had. Give some of these a try this week. I’m going to practice some of these myself!

· Program the coffee maker to have coffee ready for him when he wakes up in the morning.

· Post a sweet note on his mirror.

· Prepare his favorite meal.

· Send him a suggestive text during the day to heighten his anticipation for later.

· Dress like the woman he fell in love with, not like a mom or a frump.

· Massage his nasty feet as if they are the sweetest feet in the world.

· Speak your needs to him lovingly and honestly, but sandwich any requests between words of affirmation.

· Pray for him every day, and send him a text once in awhile telling him you are praying for him.

· Surprise him by staying under budget with groceries and household $.

· Let him know how much you appreciate how well he manages the finances.

· Let him know how proud you are of his work ethic and what an excellent provider he is. Don’t be facetious, but be sincere. Providing for one’s family is paramount to a husband’s and father’s ego. Don’t complain about what you can’t afford, but manage what he provides wisely. Then, be sure to thank him for taking such good care of the family. He needs to feel appreciated.

· Compliment him on what a loving and caring father he is.

· Wear your hair the way he likes it once in awhile.

· Shed all your “hagness” before he sees you each day. Let him know he didn’t marry a slob.

· Make him proud when you go out.

· Sneak some of his favorite candy, a note, balloons, lingerie, or even tickets to a Braves game in his car to find as he leaves for work. (OK, whatever his favorite sport team is!)

· Find a hobby or activity that you can both enjoy. He wants a recreational partner, not someone to follow around the mall.

· Chick flicks, shopping, and any other activities your husband loathes should be used sparingly. Give him a break.

· Surprise him with a picnic lunch and a maybe even a tryst in the middle of the work day.

· Let him know you still want him, and that you still find him very sexy.

· Value his opinions. Tell him his idea is a good one.

· Compliment him often, but be sincere. Be proud of him and act like you actually like him.

· Praise him in public. Never correct him or put him down in front of others. Treat him with honor and respect.

· If you catch yourself whining or complaining, nip it in the bud. If you feel the urge to nit-pick or nag, stifle it. If you feel an insult coming out of your mouth, zip it. Speak positively. Don’t be a dripping faucet.

· Watch a sporting event with him and actually be interested.

· Check your breath. It doesn’t always have to be minty. Wear cherry lipgloss or eat a strawberry before you kiss him. Be sweet!

· Don’t try to talk about anything serious during his favorite show.

· Why not bring him a drink and let him relax in the Lazy Boy for awhile when he gets home. Let him wind down after a stressful day.

· Have some couch time every day. You need to give each other some undivided attention daily. Make it a pleasant experience.

· Rub and tickle his back.

· Pick your battles. Let some things go, and use a gentle tone with the rest. You may disagree, but you don’t have to quarrel. Selfishness is the root of all quarreling. Act like a grown-up and see his point-of-view too.

· If you need to talk about something serious, plan strategically. Wait until he is fed and rested, but not too distracted or sleepy. Be considerate.

· Let him pick the movie sometimes, even if it is a guy movie.

· Kiss him like you did when you were dating.

· Keep him so fulfilled he won’t want to look anywhere else. You are the only one in the entire world who has the license to satisfy your husband. Make him the happiest man in the world. It is totally up to you.